Just heard on a call 90 min ago - cousin 29yo, cancer.
My uncle married into this family, his father in law was 2nd in command at a University, mixed race marriage of his daughter (not 100% sure this is the one?). Aaalll the stupid opinions of the day.
I don't have to ask with them, I know.
Sorry but... play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
///Edit- fwiw, she is having her eggs harvested and they are going full tilt to save her. quote "I guess its not a good diagnosis, but she is young and healthy, so they have that to work from"