Well I guess the whole entire world could just explain every single fucking time that there are some things that are just outside of a persons control or ability to change so that means they are going to have to deal with the circumstances and consequences that the situation presents the way it is and to stop trying to change it and that complaining about it or explaining the hardships or frustrations that it represents to them and others is futile, or,,, save everyone 15 minutes and just say "it is what it is".
You must live a charmed life to get so bent on such little inconsequential things. If so, good for you, I guess.